I have been away in India for the past couple of weeks and purposely avoided British news. I would have driven my partner crazy with talk of the leadership contest!
I came home late Thursday night to be greeted by a Tory friend on my voicemail. The message informed me that ‘your party are the new conservatives’. I was too tired to check the net for news so I went to bed with the suspicion that the contest had become bitter and split the membership on policy issues.
The next morning still blissfully unaware, I prepared my coffee and sat down to read the news. So Simon Hughes has had relationships with men? Hardly shocking news. But, further down the article, it mentioned the Mark Oaten situation. No wonder Charlie turned to drink!
But seriously, they are hardly scandals. My Tory friend is wrong; this is nothing at all like the ’scandals’ of the Tories. Unlike the Tories, as a party we have never attempted to preach to people how they should live their lives. A main strand of our thinking, as liberals is that a private life is private. What angers me is the press reaction to all this, implying that their conduct was immoral. Maybe that’s the case, but it’s not really any of my business to judge two men I have never met and I certainly will not be given lessons on morality by the likes of ‘The Sun’ and‘ The News of The World’
I was a bit suspicious of Mark Oatens ‘Orange Book’ credentials but warmed to him during the campaign- He has an ambition for the party which I admire. I hope Oaten can resolve this with his family and return as a fighting force for the party. His ambition and talent is needed.
With regards to Simon Hughes, it must have been a hard decision to make. After years of being ‘in the closet’, I suspect it was not very easy. Those who say he has lost integrity because he lied are wrong. It is more worrying that in this day and age public figures still feel unable to be open about their sexuality (and are still asked about it!). Maybe society is not as liberal as we think.